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What I know about love is that love doesn’t ebb and flow like a tide . It pours out generously,gently and continuously from a source that never diminishes .
So if someone is giving and taking , putting you through emotional ups and downs ,then that’s not love. It’s habits they’ve learnt from perhaps a dysfunctional childhood or traumatic adulthood encounters. And if you even in your own life goals are finding yourself feeling hot and cold about a goal or an interest or a job. Then you know whatever you think you feel for that goal , company or purpose – is a recurring habit . It comes and goes. It gives and takes . You don’t move forward like that and ,in the end, you spiral into loss . But when you find the thing that only gives. And gives more each time. A niche , a goal , a purpose , a job? Yes,even a job. That enables you to just pour. And never run out . Because it fills you so much that you continuously overflow with peace and abundance in that area – THAT’S the thing worth pursuing.
That’s the thing you love .
And, equally so , when you find the people who don’t give and take their love but constantly are there . And abundantly overflow with love and patience . The people that allow you to do the same and overflow with love for them. Then those are the people worth sticking it out with.
